Thursday, October 4, 2012

It's been awhile - Part 2


The little things
Okay, I have to admit that I still have some 8 track tapes.  Not many people know what those are anymore and it makes me a little sad, but whatever, I still have a few.  Nothing to play them on though.  So last night at my weekly Dimple therapy session I found a BubbleGum Hit Pack.  I was so excited and could not wait to listen to it in the car.  There are songs on there that haven’t been heard in years and some of those very same songs that were rediscovered last night are on a couple 8 tracks titled Super Bubble.  Oh the memories from those songs.  Roxane and I popped the cd in last night, turned it up and were happily singing the song Simple Simon from the 1910 Fruitgum Company.  I can’t remember the last time I laughed that hard.  We were getting the strangest looks from the people in the parking lot and at stop lights.  But I like to think they were just jealous because we were having so much fun and they weren’t.  It’s like listening to Proud Mary Tina Turner style and doing the dance as best as you can in the car.  I had the biggest smile on my face last night on the drive home and into work.  Bubble Gum music is highly recommended to put you in a good mood.  You just can’t help but head bob while driving or do a little boogie in the car.

Yard Decorations (pictures to come soon as it’s still in progress)
Yes, it’s that time of year again and I’m way excited.  I am less a car payment this time so I can get a few extra Halloween goodies for the yard.  I’m thinking maybe a strobe light for trick or treat night and putting that in the yard. Of course I will break out the creepy Midnight Syndicate music and try to keep Fabio mellow as the doorbell freaks him out (my poor little boy).  I can’t wait to see the kids in their costumes and hopefully will not run out of candy this year. That wasn’t a bad thing though.  I didn’t have any left to tempt me.  This year I just might make another big pot of chili, ask pop to come over and hang out with me for a bit. 

Finally understand
I wasn’t really being a bitch just because I could, but now some people are finally starting to understand why I was the way I was.  They are now feeling the same way about certain things and I can relate, but I’m not giving them the grief that I got for being bitchy about those certain things.  I just sympathize and listen.  Funny how those things work out, and here they thought I was being a bitch for no reason.

The best is yet to come?
I’ve been fairly quiet about this one as I’m not sure where it’s going to go.  But the chosen few know all about it.  I was introduced to Craig on Graffiti Night.  He is a bread man as well and works at a couple different wineries on the weekends in the tasting rooms (I give him a hard time about the cute young barely dressed thangs that he sees and we joke about them).  Yes he has a job!!  He’s very laid back and easy going.  Likes the same things I do and even makes music lists before he goes into Dimple or The Beat (not joking on that one).  For those of you that know my music whore ways I do the same thing.  In some ways he seems a little sheltered, but it’s cute the way he asks me to explain it to him.  Then will look at me a little sideways after it’s explained but keeps an open mind.  He’s older but in touch with his inner child.  I’ve spent the last few weekends with him and he makes me laugh, he’s comfortable to be with, I don’t feel self conscious in any way around him.  All my body issues, don’t even think about them.  He collects hot wheels like I collect music and is just as picky about his hot wheels as I am music.  He’s been accepted by Fabio (I was a little nervous about that one) and Craig understands that Fabio is my boy and like a child I do worry about him and want what’s best for him.  He teases me about it a little, but he gets it.  We’ve had conversations about why I was never married, had no kids.  After I explained that I didn’t want to be a single mom (not knockin those who are, I know a few single moms who have done a phenomenal job raising their children) and that I would rather be alone than in a relationship and miserable.  And we talked about why after 14 years of marriage they got divorced.  I’m not getting my hopes up, but am not leary like the last few.  I’m in a way neutral this time, which I guess is a good thing.  It’s hard for me though to have a guy around helping me with stuff around the house.  Like trimming up trees, yard work and other things.  I’m used to doing a lot of stuff by myself or with a little help from family.  Almost don’t know what to do with myself, but will figure it out.  We talked about that too and how it’s going to take me a bit to adjust, but he’s going to have to adjust as well.  I’m not the helpless little woman that he’s used to.  It’s going to be a heck of a learning curve on both parts.  Still not sure where it’s going but we will find out.

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

It's been awhile - Part 1


I’ve been a busy little girl lately and since it’s a been a bit since I last updated my blog, here’s what I have been up to and I’m saving the possible best for last

Foam Fest
Thanks to Melissa I signed myself, sister and nieces up for Foam Fest in Septmeber. It was held out at Gibson Ranch and it was marathon full of obstacles.  There were two you could choose from:  the adult 5k or the Rug Rat Race. I didn’t think my nieces, let alone myself, run the 3 miles so I signed us up for the Rug Rat race which was one mile.  I do have to say the very first slip-n-slide we had to do was a blast and I wanted to do it again.  There were a few other obstacles as well, but the favorite was the slip-n-slide.  Next year I would like to do the full 3 miles so the training has begun. Which is great, I wanted to lose a couple pounds anyways.

Graffiti Night
Every year in August is Graffiti Night along Sutter Street in Folsom. It’s a tribute to the film American Graffiti and it’s place in American Pop Culture.  Usually they have a few of the actors from the movie and a few of the cars, but not this year.  They didn’t have any of the actors, but they did have a few replica’s of the most popular ones.  The Thunderbird Suzanne Somers drove, the iconic yellow ’32 Ford that was driven by Paul LeMat who played John Milner and the Black Gasser Chevy that Harrison Ford drove. 
 It’s always a lot of fun and you get to see the usual regular cars and then there are those that you don’t see. Like this RatRod Limo. 
Pop walked away with another trophy and Doug walked away with half of the 50/50 raffle.  It was a good day.

Music Whore Ways
Ah the music whore in me will never stop.  Slow down sometimes yes, but stop…Never!!  I love to pour through music magazines, blogs, websites and live for New Release Tuesdays.  That’s my “don’t disturb me I’m on Itunes/Amazon researching new bands” night.  I don’t care how old it is, if I’ve never heard it, it’s new to me.  Even if I have heard it, I will add it to the wish list (if it’s worthy of course).  I have my calendar that I mark for the upcoming new releases that I am excited about, then add to my already 3 page wish list for those that are already out but am patiently waiting to find used.  A few I have on my “major search” list, those are the ones that are really hard to find but I know that patience and persistence will pay off.  Just have to keep looking and on occasion enlist help.  My log sheet of the cd’s I already have is up to 19 pages and am at almost 1,000 cd’s and still going strong. Is it wrong to have a goal to meet that thousand before the end of the year?  I think I can do it and maybe even beat it.  This has been years in the making and there are some that I wish I didn’t trade in for others, but that’s okay.  I don’t miss them all that much so it’s not a bad thing.  On occasion I will do the “Hey I don’t have any Fleetwood Mac” (for example) and research it, find a Best of and it will be added to the madness.  I have shared my log sheet with others, they laugh at me but enjoy the shopping list as much as I enjoy maintaining it.  For those that are curious, yes my cds are separated by genre and alphabetized.  Sick I know but it’s my sanity.

Cherries Jubilee
I love Monterey anyways, who doesn’t?  But when you get to enjoy all Monterey has to offer (seafood overload if there is such a thing) with the fun of hundreds of hot rods makes it that much better AND four days of it including the stories from Pop about the trouble they would get into, places they would hang out at and see places where they used to live.  We go to Cherries Jubilee every year.  It’s the yearly fund raiser for the children’s hospital and we are more than happy to give.  This year was my brother-in-laws first year of going in his truck.  And he had the biggest permagrin I haven’t seen in a long time.  The twin was the same way, just beamin as bright as she could.  One of his biggest thrills was driving on Laguna Seca racetrack, then getting a merchants award for the awesomeness that is his truck and pop received another award as well. 
 I’m very proud of my family.  Of course, there is the one car that just stands out and makes you drool.  The one for me this year was a gorgeous purple Lincoln Zephyr, a rare beauty indeed.
 

Friday, August 31, 2012

Gonna keep seachin, searchin

So I’ve been searching off and on for a particular album from Shirley Ellis.  Many of you only know her only by the Name Game song.  But I know her for a few other songs.  Sadly I have not been able to find the album I really want.  I have been stalking Dimple Records, took a gander at Amazon and E-Bay, but I’m not willing to pay over $70 for an album unless it’s some special collector’s edition that I’ve been dying to have and will just keeping going up in value as time goes on.  But it’s not one of those, it’s just an album that I would love to have in my collection.  So I have enlisted the assistance of a friend/co-worker in Southern California to keep an eye out for when she is out and about and happens to stumble into a used record store.  I would like to also go scour a few in San Francisco to see what treasures I can find there, to me that would be fun.  For others it might be boring.  So here is my plea, if anybody is out and about and happens to stumble into a used record/music store.  Here is the album I’m looking for. 

Shirley Ellis – The Complete Congress Recordings. 
 
If you find it, please let me know where you found it.  I would be most thankful and probably jump up and down like a high school girl that finally got the dude she’s had a crush on to ask her to the dance.  Yes I will be that excited. 

Friday, August 24, 2012

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Can you see it?


I can totally see the light and it’s so pretty. Personal goal is for this time next year to completely out of debt except for my normal monthly bills and a house payment.  I’ve felt like I’ve been swimming, sometimes drowning, in this mucky mess for years.  But little by little it’s been chipped away at and I dance, sing and whoop–n-holler when one bites the dust.  I busted my butt working two jobs for years and doing what I needed to do to make sure my bills were paid.  Even if it meant eating Top Ramen for weeks.  Today another one bit the dust and it will be in stored in the paid off folder I have in my filing cabinet.  I’m so freakin excited!!!!!

Saturday, August 11, 2012

It's the little things

So I came home Thursday night only to find a pair of flip flops that were left behind by nieces and an empty soda can on the table with a sealed envelope underneath it. 
I looked around the house for that one thing that stood out but found nothing, just the shoes.  So yesterday when I got home I went to go enjoy my Redneck Paradise and thought I should really water my flowers since it's been a few days and they were starting to look sad, wilty and hot.  I noticed the hose was curled up all nice and neat compared to how I left it then looked over towards my flowers and saw this


My dad built me a little planter :)  He and the girls had brought it over Thursday with some flowers and I didn't notice it until last night!  I need to plant the other flowers but don't yet know where. As I was watering my flowers I just smiled and felt so loved.  It's totally the little things in life that mean the most and I love coming home to these little surprises.

Monday, August 6, 2012

New Chapter Beginning

After my little melt down, a nice long talk with my wise father, some encouraging words from a friend and singing Zac Brown "Let it Go" and the Supremes "Can't Hurry Love" at the top of my lungs in the car I'm starting a new chapter in my life.  Tomorrow April is going to help me with my (gulp) dating profile and it's game on.  I've also decided to fully get off my tucas and do something about my weight and half ass exercise.  I don't want to take on the shape of my mother, even though I'm half Portuguese and we are hippy anyways, I will do what I can to do to keep it at bay.  So I will start with this motivator


So cheers to my new chapter and lots of fun dating stories ahead to be shared!!